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Have a dilemma that’s bugging you? A problem that just won’t budge? Student life can throw all kinds of curveballs. But don’t worry, we’re here to help.
Q: I feel so much FOMO because I commute and can’t always stay out late or afford to go to raves or events that I would love to go to. What should I do?!
A: This is a valid concern and one a lot of people will relate to. Commuting students are overall less considered and catered to within the social aspect of uni.
There is a common misconception that everyone at uni has the means to attend lots of expensive music events and to spend a fortune on going out. But in reality, student budgets can’t always stretch to regular nights out, which can impact on your social life.
However, the university offers plenty of cool, budget-friendly events where you can meet new people or go out with friends you’ve already made. Check if there are clubs or societies for the niche music groups you are interested in – there are plenty on The Union website.
From underground music to harmony gospel choir, there really is something for everyone. Look out for societies that host daytime events, as these make it easy to enjoy the experience and still get the train home with plenty of time.
If you want to go out in the evening, build a good relationship with a friend who lives closer to the social spots, and stay at their place to save on travel costs and ease FOMO. Depending on your circumstances, you can always return the favour and offer them a break from campus life by inviting them to stay at yours.
Q: I’m feeling anxious about finding new friends and maintaining my student community once I graduate, move away and start working. How can I pursue my own life while staying close to my uni circle?
A: This is a totally normal way to feel as you approach the end of your studies. You’ve been in this environment for three years (or more), so it’s natural to feel anxious about this change in your life.
Manchester Met postgraduate student Evie Horton shares this advice: “Embrace this new season of your life. You can’t hold on to your student identity forever, but as you go into this new era of life, you learn to grow and adapt with the connections you made at uni.”
Although it’s understandable to feel this way, try and embrace this change in your life and see it as an exciting opportunity to make new memories and meet new people. Consider joining groups in your area that are made for people to meet and make new friendships and connections too.
You might not be able to see your uni friends as often anymore, but this makes the time you spend together even more special – plan thoughtful activities to make the most of those moments.
Evie adds: “You also learn to make new connections in your new workplace or wherever you may find yourself post graduating. It really is an exciting opportunity to make new friends in your 20s.”
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