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Ask aAh!: “How can I make friends and fit in while avoiding peer pressure and not drinking?”

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Have a dilemma that’s bugging you? A problem that just won’t budge? Student life can bring all kinds of challenges. Fear not, we are here to help.


Q: I’m not interested in drinking but feel like I may have to in order to fit in during Freshers Week. How can I avoid peer pressure and still make friends?

A: Not wanting to drink is absolutely OK! We understand the pressure of drinking during Freshers Week, and realistically, it’s just not for everyone.

Advice Centre Manager, Lorna Chambers says: “Freshers Week can feel like an absolute whirlwind, and with the added pressure of wanting to make new friends, it can be easy to get caught up in peer pressure. The first few weeks at uni areis all about meeting new people and having new experiences but that doesn’t mean you need to compromise on your values.

“The first thing to remember is that there is absolutely no pressure to drink alcohol during your time at uni. Drinking at uni is not the be-all and end-all — if anyone asks why you’re not drinking, it’s perfectly fine to say you just don’t want to. If you’re ever concerned about peer pressure or your drinking habits, there’ll always be help available at The Union’s Advice Centre.

Sharing her top tip to make genuine friends, Lorna adds: “Just be yourself. If you’re worried about pressure to drink, finding alcohol-free events is a great way to ease your anxieties.” 

The Union is hosting a lineup of over 30 events over Welcome Week to help you settle in, make new friends, and start your university journey on the right foot. From the Freshers Fair, where you can explore clubs and societies, to themed parties and movie nights, there’s something for everyone.


Q: How do I budget my limited income when I want to get out and explore Manchester?

A: We’re with you on this one! Going to university is one of the best ways to learn how to budget and manage your money — but with a rising cost of living and endless opportunities around Manchester, finding the balance and maximising your money can be tricky.

We spoke to Sam Ullah from Student Financial Support for his take on managing a student budget. Sam says: “Student budgets are tight, and Manchester can be expensive. There are several helpful tools online available that can help students create a budget. It’s tempting to make big purchases when your loan comes through, but your funding will disappear quicker than you think!”

“I recommend opening an account with a different bank to separate your loan from your day-to-day spending; setting up a standing order to pay yourself your weekly budget. This way you’re only ever able to see the money you have for the week. If you’ve got something already planned; a night out, birthday or gig, budget how much you are expecting to need and put it in a savings pot, so it doesn’t get spent ahead of time.”

Sam emphasises the importance of experiencing the city: “Don’t let a tight budget stop you getting involved in Manchester. The city has lots to offer which can be done cheaply, you might just need to take a packed lunch!”

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