By Ben Thompson
Illustration: Rowan Thorp
The look of befuddlement, furrowing of the brow, the bemused smirk that crosses the lips – a common sight for commuting students.
“Why didn’t you want to live in halls?”
“You wanted to stay local? Why?”
Questions often asked with a tone of suspicion. Perhaps travelling to university on a bus is a maddening concept. It’s hardly surprising many see it this way. Even I, a student living at home, can understand it.
University life is built up to be the ‘best years of your life’. Partying, nights out, plenty of bonding activities between flatmates, shopping, movie nights and ‘the morning after’. University lifestyle is so package-and-parcel that people often fixate on it entirely – sometimes to the detriment of their university work.
Yet, students living at home feel a little out of the loop and glimpse segments of university life; a jarring experience. That feeling of walking into your first lecture without knowing anybody’s names, whilst many are already acquainted is unsettling. However, if somebody were to ask me, “Would you recommend staying at home for uni?”, I’d say yes.
It’s true stay-at-home students miss out on experiences in accommodation but I’d argue there are perks that often go ignored. For one, budgeting is far easier. Turns out, not relying on yourself to remain fed and watered can save you quite a bit of money. You’re also guaranteed peace and quiet without students next door blasting the stereos.
Ultimately, I say to anybody unsure about their living situation, do what’s best for you! Some people thrive on new experiences, socialisation and adapting to new environments. Others may be homebodies, who like their own space and like the comforts of home. The most important thing for anybody in this situation is to look at all the options and make an informed decision.
There’s nothing embarrassing about being a commuting student. Your university experience is just as valid. Put yourself out there, make friends, work hard and enjoy yourself. The fact you travel by bus or train to your lecture makes no difference in your experience.
Ben Thompson is a first year Modern History student, interested in social issues and cultural shifts. Find him on Twitter @BenKarnole
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Nice article Ben, definately agree living at home at the moment and having that support system come in very handy for budgeting and keeping you motivated. Saying that still planning to travel to gain that independent experience but great article and great illustrations Rowan.